Private onsen in Shirahama Onsen
A bath you have to yourself: no other bathers, and usually no tattoo problem either.
Is there a mixed onsen in Shirahama Onsen?
Yes: Shirasuna Open-Air Bath, Hamachidori no Yu Kaishu. If what you want is to bathe together as a couple or a family, a private onsen is usually how it is done in Japan: the 1 below has a bath your group uses alone. Where Japan’s mixed baths are, and what to wear